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Here's to Your Magnificence!Issue 105Debbie "Takara" Shelor's free on-line newsletter ezine designed to assist you in becoming the magnificent being you are inside and to gracefully handle whatever changes and opportunities life may bring. In addition to the newsletter, every few weeks Debbie sends a special message with another gift, information about a product she feels you might enjoy, or a special discount on products or services made available exclusively to her subscribers. Newsletter Co-Sponsored by: You are reading this online newsletter along with subscribers from over 100 countries around the globe. Blessings to each of you. It is a great honor to be the messenger. In This Issue:Greetings Help Inspire 1,000,000 People!Together we can empower one million people worldwide with this amazing free video. Watch it, love it, and then forward it to the people you care about... they'll thank you for it! :) GreetingsLife, as usual, is full of unexpected twists and turns. Some truly wonderful things are happening. And some rather hard things are happening. Together they equal life. The trick is to stay focused on the good, expect good things, and not get swallowed up or drown in the negative. It isn't always easy, but how you handle the day to day experiences, the good and the not so good, is what defines you and helps you grow. If you haven't seen it yet, here's the video with Susan Boyle blowing away the Idol judges, the audiance, and the counters on You Tube: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9lp0IWv8QZY Any body can do anything! It doesn't matter how you look, who your friends are, what kind of car you drive, if you went to college, if you had a messed up childhood. As I like to say, the only thing that stops you is yourself - your fears, your beliefs, your judgments, your expectations - and we can change all that! Susan Boyle's video is powerful. I've watched it 4 times and I seem to cry harder with each successive viewing. Why? An inner knowing that something very significant is going on. I had a similar reaction when J. K. Rowling's Harry Potter hit number 1. These are women with real talent that just went out there and did their thing and have literally touched the lives of millions of people. In this issue I'll be sharing a few of my life adventures. My desire is that you become empowered to regain your own magnificence by reading about my journey, experiences, and insights. May you be blessed in the radiance of The One. May you find peace, joy, and upliftment in the words and energies that accompany this message. Take a slow deep breath. Focus on your heart and give thanks for this moment. Here we go . . . Eliminating What is Disempowering YouThings don't always turn out the way you expected. I'm sure you've had things that shifted over time into something you didn't anticipate when you first got involved. Maybe it was a romance, a new job, or a relocation to a new city. Whatever it was, in the beginning it had great promise. You were excited. It was new. It was fresh. It felt good. (It's called the honeymoon period by the way) And then the warts began to show. Little things that didn't feel good about it begin to surface. Things about the person or place begin to annoy you or make you question your decision. "Maybe this isn't such a great thing after all," you say to yourself. Now what I'm about to tell you is going to upset some of you. I've received more letters about my latest romance than any of the other writing I've done. Except, perhaps, my article called What is Vibrational Healing? That one continues to get accolades from even professionals in the field. Many still claim it is the best information they have ever read about how and why energy medicine works. (http://www.spiritofnature.org/vibrationalart.htm) But besides that, there is this crazy romance thing I've written about over the last several months. That romance is a perfect example of something that started out feeling and appearing so fabulous and then twisting itself into something quite painful and hard to deal with. You know you are in trouble when you turn your attention to someone else. I discovered long ago that if you are involved in a romantic relationship and you begin focusing on another, only one of two things can be the cause. Now when I first figured this out, I was only 22. I was engaged. We had been together for 3 years and I had never even looked at another. When I suddenly found myself exceedingly interested in someone else, I had to ask myself why. The conclusion I came to was this: If you are with someone and find yourself very interested in someone else, the only possible causes are either: 1) there is something fundamentally wrong with the relationship you are in, or 2) there is something truly extraordinary about the new interest (guy in this case). So I ended my engagement and began dating the other. We were together for about a year. He was a great guy. The one I had been engaged to got drunk and drove his truck into a tree. Luckily he was fine. The truck was a disaster. Fast forward to now. Back in August I went hunting on Classmates.com for a guy I once knew. I've shared part of the story with you. Some parts of the past were too painful to share. You've read about how for a time it was a magical romance. How we spent several days together in Florida. How I felt when I was with him. How I felt like I could breathe again. How we admitted we were once again in love. But that was about the extent of the relationship. He stopped emaling and live chatting. He stopped calling. When he did connect, he said the reason he hadn't been in touch was because not being with me was so painful, he couldn't handle hearing my voice. The few brief email messages he did leave always said something like I'll call you later or I'll call you in the morning. But he never did. I usually didn't hear from him until about a week later with another I'll call you soon message. So I repeatedly experienced anticipation and then disappointment. What initially felt good, eventually felt terrible. After this had been going on for awhile, I consulted Daniel Jacob, my friend and a very well known channel. He said that we made a pact when we were young. We knew that a time would come in each of our lives when we needed an infusion of what we had then - passion, innocence, love, purity. That coming together would allow us to each regain childlike innocence, love, and passion in our lives. To go with the passion as long as it was there and when it was done, to not be disappointed if it didn't end in a ring and a promise. He also said we had chosen this time because we were done with our little vacation in limitation. Daniel has the most amazing way of putting things. I love calling life and struggle "a little vacation in limitation." (Visit his website at www.reconnections.net) Only a week or two after I found that guy on Classmates, someone else found me. We wrote a few emails back and forth. He's a great guy that I had always been very fond of. We dated briefly a very long time ago. More recently we started live chatting on a social site. Eventually he called. Whenever I went on-line, I found myself anxious to see if he was on-line too. Whenever we chatted, it always made me smile. When we talked by phone, I found myself not wanting the conversation to end. As I reflected on all of this, I realized once again that there was probably only one of two possible things going on. There is either something fundamentally wrong with what I've been involved in, or there is something truly extraordinary about the "new" guy. As was the case the first time I dealt with this back when I was 22 - the answer is probably both. So I wrote a long email to Mr. New Jersey and said it was over. He never answers when I call, so I didn't bother to try to communicate it that way. It is always sad to end something that started out with such promise. But when something becomes as painful as that had become, it is imperative to get it out of your life. What was once exhilarating had turned into a heavy anchor keeping me from soaring, from being happy, from being at peace. The new guy - who knows? I greatly enjoy our communications. And he is communicating with me in the way that the other never did. They are very different people. And that is a good thing. This thing may not go anywhere, but it helped free me from something that wasn't good for me, and that in itself has been a huge gift. So following my lead - is there anything in your life that started out feeling good, but now feels truly bad? Then get out! It's the only way. Now I don't mean end something because there is a tiny bump in the road. Life and relationships have their ups and downs. Businesses move in cycles. Relationships have their cycles. I mean the people and situations where the feeling bad parts far outweigh the feeling good. When it felt good for a short time but has been feeling bad for a long time. I should have left my husband when he had the first affair. But I thought it was a fluke. I thought it was a mistake that deserved a little compassion. I thought he would come to his senses and realize what a wonderful thing he had with me and our son. I was wrong. What started out great and felt wonderful, was really only wonderful for about 3 or 4 years. After the first affair, the marriage was destroyed. He was never happy again. I spent the next several years trying to help my husband find happiness. We had a son. I'd made a commitment. Sadly I still loved him. But unhappy people are hard to be around. They bring you down. They can be critical and judgmental. They throw their unhappiness out on everyone else. And being an empath, I took it on. I spent years trying to "fix" whatever was wrong with me that made him want to stray. I went down an ugly road of feeling like I wasn't enough. If I was only more beautiful, or more sexy, or more this or more that, then he would love me. What I finally realized is that when you don't love yourself, you can't possibly truly love another. He was unhappy. His life wasn't working. He couldn't possibly truly love me. But somehow I had made it my fault. Thankfully I'm now over all that. I've gone through a great deal of emotional pain over the years - being torn apart from the one I loved, rape, a friend's betrayal, love affaires that ended, moving to a new town where I wasn't accepted. But none of these pains compare to the devastation of the infidelity of a spouse. Rings are exchanged, promises are made, futures are anticipated, children are born, life's little mysteries unfold, moves are undertaken, careers are changed, things begin and end, and it is all with this life partner by your side. You chose one another. With this special person you share your deepest secrets, your greatest desires, your ups, your downs, your highs, your lows, your passion, your love, your body, your special and sacred moments. And when they choose another, you feel tossed aside like a dirty dish rag - old, used up, unwanted, undesirable, and unloved. It is completely devastating and often debilitating. Many people never recover. Not ever being completely restored to happiness, wholeness, and health. They usually get stuck in one of the stages of mourning - often anger or sadness. I won't even get into the new beliefs they take on - never trusting again, thinking all men (or women) are ___ (you fill in the blank). They stay wounded and end up in other relationships that are doomed to failure because they are still wounded. It's an ugly viscous cycle. Not sure why I've needed to go through all these things myself. Perhaps it is to prove that they can be wholly and completely gotten over. And so that I "know" the emotions involved and can then create and offer the energy healing tools necessary to heal them at the root cause. I'm excitedly creating Vol. II of the Dolphin Spiral Technology. The first series of meditational/healing exercises described in detail in Freeway to Freedom include healing of the wounded inner child (things that happened to you in childhood), release of the people, places, and things that were traumatic from your past, vows you've made and continue to live by that no longer serve you - many you've completely forgotten, reclaiming your joy and other positive qualities that you left somewhere along the way, and much more. (http://www.dolphinempowerment.com/spiralingbook.htm) I'm changing the name of the whole thing to "Life Works When You Are Happy, It Sucks When You Are Not." The free ebook will become "Getting Started with Life Works When You Are Happy, It Sucks When You Are Not." The fist series of energy healing exercises will become the Workbook Vol I. In Vol. II we will be addressing sexual abuse; healthy boundaries; infidelity; loss of love, health, career, finances, and friends; rejection; unrequited love; sorcery; curses; fears of abandonment, unworthiness, and being unlovable; regaining playfulness, joy, self esteem, love of self, to name a few. These new healing technologies have "come in" and are now being written down. Jonathan Goldman has graciously agreed to supply the musical environment for the recordings. And all the exercises will now be recorded in my voice. Along with several Dancing Dolphin Aromatherapy Roll-Ons, this eCourse and kit will be a profound new way to heal and empower your life. And they are just the beginning. Because right behind that, we've been developing the new workshop series: Joy, The Experience. I can't wait to share with you up close and personal the energies and technologies of Joy. So take a look at your own life and decide what you are ready to let go of. Then use Dancing Dolphin Essences and the Dolphin Spiral Technologies to heal it not only emotionally, but at the cellular, DNA, adamantine particle level. Blessings, Deb
"It's Your Turn"Be part of the conversation: As some of you know, I'm pretty active on Facebook. So I have put together something you can participate in over there. It is a group called Wild Dolphin Lovers. Just log onto, or join, Facebook (http://www.facebook.com) and then search groups for Wild Dolphin Lovers. Join the group, post images and videos, leave your thoughts. Tell your friends. You know that dolphins provide a great opportunity to feel that joy I've been talking about. If you want to follow me on Facebook, just log in or join, then search for Debbie Shelor or takara@dolphinempowerment.com. Send me a friend request. Once I accept, you can see all my postings there. And I can see yours. I put up a new blog at http://dowsing-with-debbie.blogspot.com/ called Dowsing with Debbie. For years people have been asking me questions about dowsing, so here I will be answering. There are only a few posts so far, but you are invited to comment and add insights. Once I really get it going, I will post a topic or question to dowse, and then you get to dowse and share your results. You will get more practice, see how your answers align with the answers of others, and hone this powerful skill. On several of my websites I've added a chat box. If it says "Available" it means I'm on-line and if you type in the box we will be doing a live chat. I'm putting up a new joy website in conjunction with the new work. It will be a place for sharing, of creating community, to read about the joy and miracles happening in peoples lives. It will also be a place where you can request assistance and people from around the world can send you love, light, and healing energy. Jacky contacted me using a chat box on one of my websites. We had a delightful conversation and she offered to share this information with you. Someone’s trying to get your Attention- Afterlife Communication – they’re closer than you think (by permission) By Jacky Newcomb Millions of people around the world are in contact with their loved ones…after they have died. More and more see their deceased relatives in dreams and visions. Appearing as spirit they get our attention in any way that they can. Life after death is real and we have plenty of proof! My own Dad passed just over a year ago. The night of his passing he was busy…he may have been dead but he visited each of his four daughters in dreams. Dad looked well and happy – he was just popping back to let us know he’d made it safely to the other side of life! I receive hundreds of letters each month from people who’ve had similar afterlife contact….and maybe you have too. Have you experienced any of these? You have a very ‘real’ dream of the person who has died. During the dream visit you are aware that the person is dead and rather than a normal ‘confused’ dream you are lucid. You talk to the deceased and they reassure you that they are safe and well. Sometimes they tell you that they are watching over you or they may comfort you by letting you know that ‘everything will be ok…’ You get a sense of the person being with you or close to you. Lights may flicker in the room or respond by flickering lights to yes and no answers. Alarms may go off after you sense the deceased with you – or at the time you are talking about them or thinking about them. This could be smoke alarms, bedside alarm clocks, mobile phone alarms or even door bells. Sometimes people may hear bells ringing but have no idea where the sound is coming from. Clockwork items will start up on their own (several items or something may start to work which has not been wound up for many months or years – and often in response to the deceased person being talked about or thought about. Clocks, watches, children’s toys and music boxes can be included on this list. TV’s, radio’s and DVD’s are messed around with. A DVD player may record ‘their’ favourite programme or a programme they want you to watch! Radio’s and TV’s turn on and off on their own or will switch channel to something they want you to see or listen to. Items go missing or reappear. Small coins, jewellery or crystals have a habit of doing this. Items will appear again by dropping out of mid-air or reappearing in a place where you have already looked. Sometimes (thankfully rare) objects will fly about! A photo of the deceased will move or fall (usually not breaking) or an object of theirs will find YOU. Items might appear to have been rearranged or lined up when no one (no one physical that is) has been about to do this. Finding white feathers is common. They appear after you ask for a sign or ‘co-incidentally’ when you are in need of comfort. Feathers can appear ‘as if out of nowhere’ or turn up in unusual places. Some people may pick up the very strong scent of flowers or perfume. Granddad might share the scent of his tobacco or Dad his favourite cologne. Other unusual scents people have told me about are coconut and fish and chips! But these are usually when we associate the deceased person with the smell. People see posters or even number-plates which give them signs that the deceased are around. Words stand out in a book or we come across a particular magazine article etc which gives us the information we seek. Birds and animals act in unusual ways. It is common to sense the deceased person around you. You might feel the comforting touch of a hand on your shoulder or someone holding your hand, even though you can see no one. This is normally accompanied by a feeling of great peace and tranquility rather than one of fear which you might expect. Our loved ones are desperately trying to reach out to us from their heavenly homes. Our pets can usually see things before we can and children are even more likely than adults to tune in to these afterlife realms which are not ‘up there’ but all around us (and just slightly out of ‘phase’ on a different dimension.) Imagine the blades of a fan. When the fan speeds up the blades disappear…disappear from our view that is. Even though we can’t see them, they are still there. The otherworld realms are exactly the same. They are right here with us…just speeded up enough so that (for the most part) we can’t see them. During altered states of consciousness (dreaming, meditating, during a coma or when anesthetized for example), then our soul bodies are working at a faster speed – we are more able to tune in to these other realms and they are more able to reach out to us. Like many things that exist in our normal world, just because we can’t see it, it doesn’t mean that it doesn’t exist. The afterlife…its closer than you might think! ABOUT THE AUTHOR Jacky Newcomb is an award winning, Sunday Times best selling author. She has published hundreds of articles around the world and been interviewed on national radio and TV including ‘This Morning’ and LK Today (The Lorraine Kelly Show). If you’d like more information about afterlife communication you can read Jacky’s book, ‘Angels Watching Over Me,’ Published by Hay House. For information about children’s experiences and psychic ability read, ‘Angel Kids,’ also published by Hay House. For signed copies of Jacky’s books or to communicate with Jacky, visit her online at: www.JackyNewcomb.com
What's on Sale?I had my own little private Camelot for awhile. Life was grand. It was a magical time. I had tons of friends. I had a great guy. I was a cheerleader. I seemed to be good at almost everything I tried - dancing, acting, academics. I absolutely loved my life. I was happy and life worked. And then we moved. I might have done better jumping off a cliff. I had lived in a few places previously, went to different schools in various parts of the country. But I had never before experienced cliques. I went to Urban Disctionary to make sure I was spelling clique right. This is what they had to say: "Clique - Why i wish i wasn't a teenager - A group, typically of teens, who exclude all who don't fit into their stereotypical image of perfection, and conform to all the rules of this "perfection". Often think they are showing outstanding originality and individuality, when they are in fact exactly the same. And this is the same for all subcultures. Usually hate "opposing" clique for no good reason other than they perceive/have been told that this is the right thing to do. Like to label people, so they don't have to regard each human as an individual." (I love Urban Dictionary, its the only place I know to look for what all those goofy little initials mean in text messages) I went home in tears practically every day for almost a year. No matter what I tried - how I dressed, what I did, who I talked to, what I said, it just never seemed to work. I was miserable. My heart and happiness were somewhere else - stuck in a tiny town in New Jersey. And slowly over time all those I loved in New Jersey began to write less and less and eventually not at all. Out of sight, out of mind I decided. (This was, of course, before cell phones, text messaging, live chats on Facebook, the internet, and email - a time when long distance calls were expensive. So we wrote letters. Too funny! No wonder we lost touch.) It's not like every single moment of every single day was terrible. I had many great times too. I made a few good friends. I went out with some really wonderful guys. I created numerous fond memories. But rejection and having people say cruel things to and about you is a hard thing. I eventually learned to be cruel back - which was even worse. Being unkind is fundamentally against my nature. I just couldn't wait to get out. So, I moved out of that town and into my own apartment the day after I graduated from High School. And as soon as I got out, the magic began again. I soon had many new friends. I met a great guy and was engaged almost immediately. I had a job that I enjoyed and it paid well. I was getting a degree from a great school. I was President of the student Chapter of the Institute of Industrial Engineers at Virginia Tech. We had 300 members. Obviously to hold a position like that, I had attained a certain level of popularity. No-one's life works all of the time. But it can always be more magical and more fun. Sometimes the day to day can be difficult and we lose our zest and passion for life. We all want to be happy and to have our life work. That's why I make the products I make and offer the technologies I create. Do you remember a Camelot time in your own life? - A time when you were happy, you were acknowledged and appreciated, and your life seemed to work. It's time to reclaim it now with The Essence of Camelot and the accompanying CD by Richard Shulman from which it was created. Camelot Reawakened is an awared winning CD with full orchestra and vocals. The melodies and musical soundscapes literally take you into a magical place. With or without the music, the essence is fabulous! Life seems magical when you are bathed in that frequency. It is one of my favorites. Synchronicity seems to increase. I always get better parking spots when I have it on. And it puts me in a great mood. A friend of mine put some on before giving a massage. She was exuding such a happy presence that her client said, "I want some of whatever you've been doing." Let's all get back to Camelot, shall we? Get Essence of Camelot (retail $17.95) and Camelot Reawakened by Richard Shulman (retail $17.95) together for $27.00 (save $8.90) Get this great Camelot deal in the what's on Sale section at Dancing Dolphin EssencesThis Issue is Sponsored In Part by:Want to see your ad here? Visit this link for details(http://www.dolphinempowerment.com/Newsletter-Advertising.htm)Have a fantastic day, Deb P.S. I always love to hear your comments, so be sure to send me an email at takara@dolphinempowerment.com.
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