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Here's to Your Magnificence!Issue 106Debbie "Takara" Shelor's free on-line newsletter ezine designed to assist you in becoming the magnificent being you are inside and to gracefully handle whatever changes and opportunities life may bring. In addition to the newsletter, every few weeks Debbie sends a special message with another gift, information about a product she feels you might enjoy, or a special discount on products or services made available exclusively to her subscribers. Newsletter Co-Sponsored by: You are reading this online newsletter along with subscribers from over 100 countries around the globe. Blessings to each of you. It is a great honor to be the messenger. In This Issue:Greetings GreetingsWhat a wonderful new season we have entered. And it is definitely one of profound change. I always feel so amazingly blessed to have each of you in my life. I recently checked the details of where each of you are from and discovered that there are now people from over 100 countries reading the newsletter. I send greetings and blessings to each of you! Big changes are happening. Things that you might not have considered previously are now becoming very appealing. Places, careers, friendships that you never imagined possible, are now magically unfolding. There is the temptation to fall back into the old habits, to distrust because of past pain. But, if you can allow for the possibility of the past truly being behind you, the terrain becomes entirely new and as you define it. It is very exciting. I'm making some very big changes in my life. You'll read more about that below. Life can knock you down hard some times. You may feel defeated, unworthy, unloved or whatever. But it is those moments that define you. You can either sink or swim. You can become an angry or bitter old man or woman or rise to the occasion and become more than you have ever been before. It's not easy. But to me there is only one choice. Who wants to be angry, bitter, or sad forever? I certainly don't. And I'm sure you don't either. So let's explore together ways to rise up from the ashes of your latest struggle. My desire is that you become empowered to regain your own magnificence by reading about my journey, experiences, and insights. May you be blessed in the radiance of The One. May you find peace, joy, and upliftment in the words and energies that accompany this message. Take a slow deep breath. Focus on your heart and give thanks for this moment. Here we go . . . Our Biggest Sale Ever!Since we're closing up this office and moving it to Virginia, the less inventory in stock the better. Purchase the new Universal L essence and get Dancing Dolphin roll-ons for only $10 each through May 31st. You save $7.95 per roll-on bottle. Read more about the new Universal L essence and the move to Virginia below. Get this great deal in the what's on Sale section at Dancing Dolphin EssencesThe Golden Rule RevisitedThe Golden Rule is how I live. It is what I teach my son (or try to anyway). Even when others are unkind, I still do "the right thing" by following this inner set of directions. Before I say or do anything that affects another, I pause and ask myself, "If this happened to me, how would it feel?" What I mean is, if someone said these words to me, how would I feel? Would I feel good or would I feel bad? Would I feel empowered or would I feel disempowered? If I would feel bad or disempowered, then I change the words I'm about to speak to have less of a negative effect. Sometimes we have to say unpleasant things to others. I find those moments very difficult. Deep friendships and relationships or being someone's boss sometimes requires that you have to call someone on their inappropriate behavior. Or, you have to let someone know that what they have been doing or saying is hurting someone else - oftentimes you. There are a million ways to express your displeasure at someone else's behavior. Calling them names, shouting and yelling, going for the jugular that pummels them to bits emotionally - that isn't the way when you follow the golden rule. Besides, when a person feels attacked, what is their natural response? They attack back and now you have a war. History has proven over and over again that war isn't the answer that solves anything. When you say it gently, with compassion, and the other person doesn't feel attacked, then they are more open to hear what you have to say. There is also a much greater chance that the issue can get rectified in a positive manner. Most people have to ask themselves "How would I feel." I don't really have to do that. Being an empath, I can literally feel exactly how the other person will feel. And with pronounced intuition, I often am "guided" as to what to say to another. That's why so many people feel safe telling me stuff. Because I'm not going to turn around and make them feel bad. Because no one wants to feel bad. All anyone wants is to feel accepted and appreciated - to have someone that believes in them. That's what we are all looking for in friendships, in romances, even in our careers. We want to be acknowledged and to be accepted. If you are constantly around people who belittle or criticize you, then it slowly erodes your self esteem. You begin to feel bad about yourself. High self esteem is absolutely critical if you want to be happy. And if you aren't happy, then your life simply can't work the way you want it to. The best way to have people in your life that accept and appreciate you, is to begin to accept and appreciate others. See their strengths. Tell them how blessed you feel to have them in your life. Give them pats on the back for both big and little things. You must do this in a genuine way. Pretending to be kind never works. Just think about how you would feel if someone complemented you, thanked you for something, or told you "good job." So, knowing how good it feels, give that feeling to someone else. Just like tithing, what you give out comes back - often 10-fold. If you give out kindness and complements, guess what you get back? If you give out criticisms and judgment, guess what you get back? If you genuinely appreciate another, guess what people begin doing to you? Following the golden rule makes life easy. It always lets you know what to do under any circumstance. And when you live your life like this, you never have to later regret something you have said or done to another. In every area of life, the golden rule can apply. One little sticky detail about the golden rule and giving and receiving: You often don't receive from the place where you give. I first learned this concept from my friend, Randolph Craft, who learned it directly from Buckminster Fuller. http://www.RandolphCraft.biz It goes like this: You give directly in front of you - to a person , or group, a project or item that you develop. Your reward, or receipt, will come to you from a 90 degree angle - from the side. From a person or place that you aren't expecting. So be open to this. And don't keep expecting to get "paid" in kindness or even sometimes dollars from the person in front of you. When you are kind to the person in front of you, that person may not be kind back. But know that someone else, or many someone else's, will be. So live the golden rule knowing that you will receive. A great parenting, leadership, friendship, coaching tip I also learned from Randolph based on precession: When you try to give praise or acknowledgement to someone, they often can't receive it properly. So, tell someone else while the person you are complementing can overhear. This concept works amazingly well. If someone says you look beautiful, did a great job, or are very gifted at a particular skill, you will often throw up a bunch of defenses, downplay the complement, mentally criticize yourself, and not "take in" the words. Say you want to acknowledge Joe. You would make sure Joe can hear your conversation with Susan. You then tell Susan how handsome Joe is, or what a great job he did, or how skilled he is at something. Joe will listen with no defenses, take to heart the words, and feel very happy and proud. This is a great way to build self esteem in another. (Once again, it is happening at a right angle - from the side - and that's how precession works.) Don't overdo it. Too much and it will lose it's power. But do it every now and then and especially if the person is having a rough time. Keep on practicing living the golden rule. I guarantee your life will improve. What's the Big News in My Life?I'm divorced and I'm moving! Woohoo! Both are gigantic and both are happening fast. I'm in a space of "knowing" and "flowing." The divorce was a whirlwind. It still feels surreal. Timing is everything. Boy was that the truth in this case. My former husband, Raven, asked me to wait to file the divorce papers because he had decided to become a U.S. citizen. I was a bit disappointed because I really wanted to be divorced by my birthday in March. When I "tuned in" about his request, being kind, again, felt like the right thing to do. So I waited. It felt like beating my head against the wall trying to fill out the forms anyway. A pile of papers full of legal jargon. Most of it was easy. But I kept getting stuck on the parenting plan and how to divide up the "stuff." According to the internet, a divorce in New Mexico can take as little as 30 days. According to a recent newspaper article, it takes 61 days. So I anticipated it becoming final somewhere between 1 and 3 months. Over the years I've shared several moments when I just "knew" something. I "knew" I had to go to a particular store one day. I met Raven there. I "knew" I needed to show up as soon as possible at the Sound Healing Conference in Santa Fe. I immediately found Jonathan Goldman and we worked out the details of our agreement for the Essences of Sound - something we'd been trying to do for a long time. I was having another one of those "knowing" moments. I "knew" I had to file the divorce papers last Wednesday. So on Tuesday, after Raven had successfully passed his citizenship interview, he came over and we completed all the divorce papers together. I got up at 5:30 a.m. on Wednesday to recopy in better penmanship, all the forms. I used Essence of Camelot because it makes everything happen magically. I then asked God to "make this easy." Raven met me at the bank and my friend Pat, my personal banker, notarized all the signatures. I then headed over to the courthouse. It was 12:30 p.m. when I arrived. After the guy at the cashier's office had stapled all the forms together and stamped them, etc., the computer spit out the name of the judge assigned to my case. That judge wasn't in that day. So the cashier guy wrote on one of those tiny little sticky notes the names of 2 other judges. He said just go upstairs and see if either of them will review your paperwork. I went into the ladies room and dowsed which judge to go to. I took the forms to the secretary of that judge. She stuck little tabs on all the pages that needed a judge's signature. She then handed them back to me and said that I should take them to the other judge since this one had stepped out for a moment. If that other judge couldn't do it, then to come back in about 15 minutes. This was a crossroads. A point of decision. If I followed my dowsing I would wait for this judge and not visit the other. But, I was being pointed in a new direction and that often happens. You start at point A and you think it is your end point, but it is only the first step. Somewhere in point A you meet someone or have an insight or new inspiration and head off to point B. And point B may also not be your end point. You just keep following the breadcrumbs the Universe gives to you until you get to the end result. So, I went to the other judge. By now I needed to put more money in the parking meter. I gave the secretary the paperwork and headed out to my car. When I got back, the secretary handed me the already signed papers and told me to keep this one and give these other two things to the cashier. I said, "And then what?" And she said, "And then you are divorced." "What?" This process that reportedly takes 30 to 60+ days had just taken me exactly one hour and 10 minutes. I called Raven as I walked out of the couthouse and said "Congratulations you are a single man!" He couldn't believe it either. But you see I believe in flow. I believe in miracles - both big and small. I believe that anything is possible. I believe that if you are clear about what you want and follow your inner guidance, you can manifest anything. You can have experiences that other people don't have. And when these things happen, you know that you know, and you know that you are in flow. There is no question that I am in flow. I'm flowing farther and faster than I have in years. So now I'm flowing to Virginia. And that is also unfolding magically. I'm moving back to be with family, to begin again, to teach workshops and hold gatherings in a place that is begining to "wake up." I'm being welcomed with open arms. And since I have been reconnecting with former high school classmates, I now have a whole network of friends already in place. I couldn't have done it even 6 months ago. It wasn't time. I had no desire to be back there. But suddenly, something significant has shifted - me. And I'm ready to embrace this truly beautiful place and the people who live there. I'm ready to tube down the New River and boat at the lake. I'm ready to walk barefoot on the grass and hike to waterfalls and other magical spots that I haven't seen in years. Raise a glass to me on May 29th, 8:00 p.m. wherever you are, in celebration of my new beginning. A group of dear lady friends from Santa Fe will be with me raising a glass in farewell. So, ladies in Santa Fe, you are invited to meet me on May 29th, 6:30 p.m. at the Pyramid Cafe.
"It's Your Turn"Be part of the conversation: As some of you know, I'm pretty active on Facebook. So I have put together something you can participate in over there. It is a group called Wild Dolphin Lovers. Just log onto, or join, Facebook (http://www.facebook.com) and then search groups for Wild Dolphin Lovers. Join the group, post images and videos, leave your thoughts. Tell your friends. You know that dolphins provide a great opportunity to feel that joy I've been talking about.
If you want to follow me on Facebook (http://www.facebook.com), just log in or join, then search for Debbie Shelor and look for this picture or takara@dolphinempowerment.com. Send me a friend request. Once I accept, you can see all my postings there. And I can see yours. Follow me on Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/Debbie_Shelor I put up a new blog at http://www.debbieshelor.com. I'm putting up a new joy website in conjunction with the new work. It will be a place for sharing, of creating community, to read about the joy and miracles happening in peoples lives. It will also be a place where you can request assistance and people from around the world can send you love, light, and healing energy. This Issue is Sponsored In Part by:Want to see your ad here? Visit this link for details(http://www.dolphinempowerment.com/Newsletter-Advertising.htm)Have a fantastic day, Deb P.S. I always love to hear your comments, so be sure to send me an email at takara@dolphinempowerment.com.
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