
Here's to Your Magnificence!
Issue 99
Debbie "Takara" Shelor's
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In This Issue:
Greetings
Dangerously Delightful Journey - Revisiting and Freeing Myself
From the Past
The 12:12 Doorway - Walk Through It With Grace
Greetings
What an amazing moment we are in.
Have you been noticing new challenges, insights, and levels
of empowerment since the new moon on November 27th (Thanksgiving)?
Wow, some enormous things have surfaced for me. I'll share
some of that with you below. My desire is that you become
empowered to regain your own magnificence by reading about
my journey, experiences, and insights.
May you be blessed in the radiance of The One. May you find
peace, joy, and upliftment in the words and energies that
accompany this message.
Take a slow deep breath. Focus on your heart and give thanks
for this moment.
Here we go . . .
Dangerously Delightful Journey - Revisiting
and Freeing Myself From the Past
I wrote previously about reclaiming
the passions of youth and reconnecting
with a very old flame. I received more email messages after
writing that piece than any other article I've ever written.
Many of you have since contacted me wondering what happened.
Did I fall madly, passionately, wildly in love with the man
of my dreams? - Sadly No.
Did I spend a few glorious days at the beach and decide that
I wanted to move to the East Coast instead of the West? -
Definitley not!
Did I discover and finally free myself completely from the
massively distorted "what if" fantasy that I'd been
running since I was a teenager? - Yes!
Here is how it played out . . .
I often refer to myself as a spiritual adventuress for a
reason.
Sometimes you have to take huge risks (divinely guided of
course) in order to gain huge rewards. This experience was
certainly no exception.
For three months we connected by phone - sometimes once a
week, sometimes every day, typically for an hour or more.
Hearing his voice was both exciting and uplifting. The first
time he called me, he hinted at coming to visit. The next
time we talked, he flat out asked me and I excitedly agreed.
I hadn't seen him in 30 years.
Back then I was absolutely, positively, madly, and totally
in love with the guy that I thought was the greatest thing
that God ever put on this earth. The devastation I experienced
when my father accepted a job somewhere else and we subsequently
moved was beyond words.
I believe that everything happens for a reason and I've been
very successful at overcoming and healing some pretty horrific
experiences - rape, a friend's betrayal, an unfaithful husband,
sorcery, the list goes on.
But I had always believed that moving had been a horrible
mistake, a great cosmic error, and that I was supposed to
live where I used to live and I was supposed to be with this
guy. I had held onto that belief like a life preserver all
this time. I had just never been given an opportunity to look
at it before. I was not aware that it was running in the background.
So now it was this belief's turn to take center stage, to
gain some attention, and to finally be released.
I was literally shaking all over when the plane landed. My
plane was early and he was stuck in traffic. As I stood at
the curb waiting to be picked up, pacing, practically hyperventilating,
he called me on my cell and said, "breath." It was
excellent advice.
He was nothing like I had imagined - physically or personality-wise.
He had some fabulous and delightful qualities. Yet the man
I was spending time with was nothing like the guy I thought
I was in love with.
I was basically thrown a set of car keys and told "have
fun at the beach," while he proceeded to be completely
tied up and busy for days on end. It was hugely disappointing.
So, commune with the ocean, the wind, the sand, the palm
trees, the tropical birds, I did.
I tearfully mourned all the years I thought I was suppose
to have with him, but never did. I felt that every time I
had ever been with this guy there was always something in
the way - my dad moving me away, another guy's horrendous
interference, and now his preoccupation with a task long overdue.
I realized I was still angry with my dad for somehow ruining
my life by moving our family.
And as I let that go, I felt a huge weight energetically
release and fall away. I was no longer encumbered by what
I felt were outside forces messing up my ability to manifest
my dreams and desires. There was no interference, just my
own distorted perceptions. I reclaimed my ability to have
what I want, to create my reality, to be once again in joy.
It significantly shifted things.
And the rest of my time there, we were together. Finally
I was getting time and attention from the guy I'd wanted time
and attention from for all those years. It felt good.
It was a form of closure allowing me to let go of a deep
longing from the past so I can live fully in my now. I keep
hearing that song in my head by Daughtry - What About Now?
(What about now, what about today, what if you are making
me, all that I was meant to be?)
There is really no room for me in his life - the hours he
works, even the coast he lives on is entirely wrong for me.
And I love how crystal clear all of that became.
So after all these years I realized I wasn't missing anything
after all, that the Universe hadn't made some giant mistake,
that he wasn't the man of my dreams that I'd been tragically
kept apart from like some epic Shakespearean play.
The people and experiences I've had, the over the top successes
and debilitating failures, the passionate loves and heartbreaking
loves lost, the seemingly endless array of awe inspiring moments,
were all exactly as they should be.
I'm seeing everything with new eyes. I'm having huge appreciation
for so many people and things at a level that I never did
before.
Since returning from the trip I reclaimed several significant
things directly related to this man and that long ago time
in my life.
First of all I took back the piece of my heart that I gave
him for safe keeping. I've already talked about reclaiming
my passion. The other piece that I only reclaimed yesterday
was the charismatic, fun loving, full of laughter girl with
tons of friends that I was even before I met him. I reclaimed
all those pieces using a new process I've been developing
over the past few months that I will soon be offering to clients
and workshop attendees.
Yes, finally, I'm going to be once again doing one on one
phone consultations and sessions - not just the energy transferences
that I've been doing lately.
I am deliriously happy. I know who I am and what I want.
I know where I want to live and the kind of person I want
to share my life with.
Could I have reached that level of clarity without the trip?
Maybe. Eventually. But the journey was the way my soul and
personality worked it out. I will be eternally grateful for
the opportunity and the time shared with a remarkable man
who has so significantly impacted my life.
I wish for him only love, health, happiness, and success.
May he find all of those and more in the years to come.
The 12:12 Gateway - Walk Through It With Grace
Friday, December 12th is a powerful day. It should be a magnificent
full moon. Like I said in the beginning, I've been experiencing
a huge transformation since the New Moon on Nov. 27th. The
full moon brings to fruition what was started then. As I walked
on the beach on December 1st, I said to myself and the Universe,
"This is the day that my entire life changes." And
I knew it would be true.
Bask in the radiance of today and head boldly into your future.
Decide who you are, what you want, and who you want to become.
If you aren't living up to your potential in every area of
life, then decide right now to do something about that - and
begin to take positive actions that will get you there.
Remember that you are never alone. And
Remember to give thanks.
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Have a fantastic day,
Deb
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